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Thinking of you.
Can we help you financially or some other way along with our prayers?
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Hello everyone, I just finished reading the posts from all of you. I can't tell you how much it means to have so many people care. I first posted here just to vent and get some of my feelings out and telling strangers helped, but none of you feel like strangers to me anymore. I am so glad I came here.
A lot has happened in this short period of time. So, my husband is not staying at home but comes home at night before I put the kids to bed tells them goodnight then leaves. He says he is staying with a friend, not a girl. I do not believe him. He isn't capable of telling the truth at this point. He says he is taking care of the bills and so far has been bringing groceries. We are kind of tired of frozen and boxed foods but at least he is bringing something. so thank you all for offering to send money but it is not necessary. It means a great deal that you were all prepared to do that. thank you!
Up to this point I have been holding on praying that he will change his mind but it doesn't seem like he will. He has said over and over he doesn't love me or want to be with me and that he can't stand to be around me. He said it is easier to just walk away and not try to make it work.
He wants a divorce very badly. He is selling things just to pay for an attorney. Friday he came home and told the kids he couldn't buy costumes for them because he didn't have money but then that night he went out and bought his girlfriend a $150 purse. I found the receipt! He didn't deny it, just said it was a gift. Today I found out he has been telling people that I was not handling money right,wasn't paying bills and had 6 credit cards that he knew nothing about and that is the reason for the divorce. It is not true at all. I don't understand why he is being so hurtful. I have been through so many emotions. I wake up not knowing if I am going to have a good day or a bad day. Will I be angry or sad. I am trying to stay positive for the kids but it is hard. They have seen me cry way too much.
I guess I need to just give up. I don't see him changing his mind. I have asked God many times Why? but I have no answers. I want to know why this is happening so I can fix it. No, he does not believe in God. i wish he did.
So that is where things stand. Thank you all for caring so much. I will try to be better about posting.
Angie
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This post was edited on Nov 20, 2009 08:39 AM
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Angie,
Many hugs and prayers for you and your kids. He is saying those things b/c he knows he is wrong and by telling others the stories about you, well, he is trying to make himself look good.
Hang in there, keep praying, and who knows what God has in store for you.
I watched a neighbor go through this except his wife left him for another guy - well, apparently there were a few before the one she left him for - she left him with three young daughters. To add insult to injury, she took everything out of the house and had her boyfriend trash the place and empty out the garage and destroy the yard. The neighbor held it together for the sake of his girls and with the help of family, he took the high road. It has finally gone to court and he came out well - they have joint custody (she didn't even want her kids but wanted the money from child support) and he got a lot of things back. There are still people that believe he did all those horrible things b/c that is what she says but most people who know both of them, know the truth.
I'm very, very sorry!
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Thanks for the update. But, knowing what is happening, how can we help? We still want to be there and give to you but need help in knowing how. What sizes do you need for the dc? Where can we send things for you? Whether they be supplies, cards, gift cards, etc - we want to give what we can. Are you all set on school supplies? What are you thinking about for Christmas? You will want to do what you can to keep this yr as close to 'normal' as you can, even if it's different. So, what can we do to help?
(((((hugs))))) and prayers for you and your dc.
K
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